Comments on: How To Save Money On Your Gas & Water Bills Each Year

By: Raul L.

Raul L. — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 22:00:59 +0000

He is a perfect example of "The love of money is the root of all evil." 1 Timothy 6:10
Hebrews 13:4-5 says "Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral. Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have, because God has said, "Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you."
I hope this helped you and encouraged you. I wish you the best.
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By: jaded

jaded — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 21:58:59 +0000

how could you respect such a loser. glad he has money for ciggies.

why would you, a woman, spend one dime to support a fully grown healthy man. men support and give things to women, it is not the other way around. you are being used. and with your full permission and cooperation.

you do not sound very smart. maybe this is all you can get. what i would do is move to a warm place like florida and find a decent man,,,,at church with the lord.
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By: Steph

Steph — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 21:56:59 +0000

It's not your responsibility to feed and clothe him. If you can't afford it than you can't just tell him he needs to get a job or move out. Communication is the key to a good relationship.
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By: letterstoheather

letterstoheather — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 21:54:59 +0000

He’s a controller, and you are also an enabler.

If you want to see your mom and family, you ought to be able to do so whether your spouse likes them or not. I had a mother in law i really didn’t like much at all, but i didn’t prevent my husband from seeing or loving her.. i kept my mouth shut…. YOU are an individual, and deserve the freedom to see whomever you like…

You have been paying his way for years, so you are enabling him to make money at his leisure… sometimes he does, sometimes he doesn’t. And he spends it frivolously because he knows you will come through and pay for the necessities of life. He’s really pathetic.

He is saying you have money put away because that’s what he did, and so he doesn’t trust you. If you saved money, it’s NOT his, it’s YOURS.

If i were with a guy like this, i’d give him conditions for me to stay — such as get a steady job, start helping with necesary bills, stop being paranoid, do not tell me who i can and can’t see OR he could get lost.

Life is hard enough without the person we are in love with trying to make it harder or worse.
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By: LindaR

LindaR — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 21:52:59 +0000

It seems he is expecting too much from you.If he doesn’t change his attitude I think you should break it off with him.He needs you to support him financially,obviously,and it’s up to you whether you want to continue to do it or not.Love is not dependence.He calls you greedy for not giving him every cent you have.WHO is the greedy one here?…Do you really want to continue to live this way?How are you ever gonna have anything for yourself if he keeps taking all your money away from you?He sounds like more of a boy than a man.But that’s just my opinion.
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By: DJ

DJ — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 21:50:59 +0000

If you want a relationship blessed by God, you should date in a way that He would approve. Plain and simple, living with a man and having premarital sex isn't it. You may not see a solution, but believe me, if you are obedient to God He will bless you in ways you cannot imagine. Trust Him. Do it His way.
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By: Me

*Me* — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 21:48:59 +0000

Im sorry, i cant read all that.. its hurting my brain. PLEASE learn how to use paragraphs.
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By: George P

George P — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 21:46:59 +0000

do what feels good
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By: prom queen

prom queen — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 21:44:59 +0000

letting down your lord?

oh lordy … leave the loser and find another lord then.
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By: Olga2009

Olga2009 — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 16:42:00 +0000

Women or Men, please I need your advice.?
I really need help on this because I don’t know what to do. I feel like I"m letting down my Lord by coming up with this decision. I have been with this guy; living together for 5 years and we have been together steadily for 6 years. We have known each other for over 10 years. Anyway, about 5 years ago we had moved up north in Canada and we went through hell and back. We were so broke, we did not have 2 pennies to rub together. We also had our hot water shut off because we did not have any money and had to boil the water to bath. We were there for about 2 years. He stayed and I moved to Kitchener to live with my grandmother for other reasons and I was sending him money there while he was working up there full time. About 3 months later, he decides to move back and we moved into his mothers house for a year to save money so we can get ourselves back on our feet, etc, etc. Well, he got a job as myself and later on I found out that he was saving his money like $5000 and here I am trying the time to save my money as well, and he was telling me that he’s broke and I ended up spending my money. Anyways, about a year later we move out and again, I find myself spending all my money on rent, bills, food especially and outings, etc. Now this has been going on since we moved up north. I was paying for everything, or at least I tried too. I have been working and trying to do my best for the both of us but it never seems to be good enough. Now, I’m in a dilemma with him that I am working and I am going back to school in a few weeks and right at this time, he is not making any money and is depending on me. I don’t mind helping others out as I am not a greedy person, but come on! This has been going on for 5 years and we’re not even married. I do love him and he does work really hard at work to get clients as he makes commission only and is picky about where to find a second job. The last time he received a check was like a month ago and he spent it all on his car. He did not buy food, he bought take out like 6 times. Also, last christmas, he yelled at me because he had to buy me gifts. He made me feel guilty for wanting gifts on christmas and it could’ve been from the Dollarstore for all I care. About a few days ago, he threw a temper tamptrum about not having any cigarettes or gas for his car or not having any food in the house and I explained to him that It’s hard for me to take care of both of us, like I’m trying to do my best. gets mad at me says that I"m hiding money and I"m being greedy, but I"m not. I really don’t have money right now. He has a temper but only when you piss him off and also he hates my family and I cannot see my mom or he’s leaving and he’ll be really mad if I choose to spend time with my niece. Like is it me, or what. I love this man, but yet, I’m not happy and I just want to live in a positive atmosphere and be happy. Please people, I really need your advice on this. If this was you, what would you do. Just remember, that we do have a bond and we do love eachother, but lately I"ve been falling out of love for him. Anyways, please help me.